Mythologically, Uranus abused his son, Chronos-Saturn, because he feared that he would usurp him. Chronos-Saturn did just that: he castrated his father then re-created the same fear towards his own sons. They (except Zeus) were devoured by their father. The alchemists wrote that mankind lived under Saturn's shadow, not just time and mortality, but the fear that patriarchy perpetuates among men. Hermetically speaking that statement must be broadened today to include the hatred that patriarchy shows towards women. The following poem, based on Lincoln's address to his son's teacher, is an up-date for those who live under Saturn's warrior shadow. As the feminist writer, bell hooks, has continually argued: it is men's fear of men that produces the political structure which supresses women. Changing men is part of the feminist agenda.
Men-toring.
He will have to discover, I know,
That all men are not fair,
All men not honest.
And show him clearly
That his truth can be a lie;
That black truth and white truth
Should exist every day.
That for every war-maker
There is a peace-healer.
For every betrayal
There is a true friend.
Let his speak against the noisy
And listen to the silent
And yes, do walk him kindly
From discontent, if you can,
So he comes to love himself
And become a loving man.
Allow him his privacy
And his public voice.
Let him be modest
And not fear the proud.
Show him, as you must,
The soul inside each book.
And give him his rights
As a child of the world
To know the horizon of the sun
And himself.
Make the world beyond
And the world inside
Become of equal weight
Until they coincide.
Try to give my son,
Belief in himself
And be not afraid
Of the feminine in man.
Teach him how to study
And study how to teach.
That all men are not fair,
All men not honest.
And show him clearly
That his truth can be a lie;
That black truth and white truth
Should exist every day.
That for every war-maker
There is a peace-healer.
For every betrayal
There is a true friend.
Let his speak against the noisy
And listen to the silent
And yes, do walk him kindly
From discontent, if you can,
So he comes to love himself
And become a loving man.
Allow him his privacy
And his public voice.
Let him be modest
And not fear the proud.
Show him, as you must,
The soul inside each book.
And give him his rights
As a child of the world
To know the horizon of the sun
And himself.
Make the world beyond
And the world inside
Become of equal weight
Until they coincide.
Try to give my son,
Belief in himself
And be not afraid
Of the feminine in man.
Teach him how to study
And study how to teach.
And risk the hugs of men
For they are his neighbours.
Allow him to respond to human touch
And temper himself,
Not weapons of steel.
Permit him his body,
His spirit,
His soul,
So he may, unafraid,
Be more than my son.
For they are his neighbours.
Allow him to respond to human touch
And temper himself,
Not weapons of steel.
Permit him his body,
His spirit,
His soul,
So he may, unafraid,
Be more than my son.




